EN Life Lesson -Forgiveness-

School. We learn a lot at school, sometimes twenty or thirty years some of us.

We learn all kinds of things starting with writing, reading, numbers and we go to more complex stuff, we find links, we comment, we become educated adults.

But, no one teaches us at school how to buy a house, a car, how to behave with our neighbors, how to react when we feel we are wronged, how we should choose our friends. There are a lot o things school doesn't provide us with. I would like to read a book about how we should live our life, with tips and ideas about different situations of life.

What I've learned at school? A lot, but the most important thing I haven't learned at school but in every day life is - to forgive and to forget, to forget and to forgive -

When you don't forgive you are stuck somewhere on the way. While at school no one told me about this important act of life - forgiveness - I've discovered it, I've became aware of it's importance and I want to tell others. I've met people of pretty old age who couldn't move forward in their life because they didn't have this exercise of forgiveness in their way of thinking.

Forgiveness and forgetfulness are essential even when we are wronged and we know and realize that we are right.

The one who forgives has power. The power to move forward !

RO Lectie De Viata-Iertarea-

Scoala. Ne scolim ani la randul, douazeci chiar treizeci unii dintre noi.

Invatam de toate, incepand cu scrisul, cititul, numerele, trecem apoi la lucruri mai complicate, facem legaturi, interpretam, comentam, devenim adulti educati. Dar in scoala nu ne invata nimeni cum sa ne cumparam o casa cum sa achizitionam o masina, cum sa relationam cu vecinii, cum sa reactionam atunci cand ne consideram nedreptatiti, cum sa ne alegem prietenii. Sunt multe chestiuni pentru care scoala nu ne pregateste.

Visez sa citesc o carte in care sa scrie cum ar trebui sa traim viata, cu

sfaturi si idei pentru diverse situatii in fata carora viata ne pune fara sa ne ceara acordul.

Ce nu am invatat eu in scoala? Multe. Dar cel mai important lucru pe care nu l-am invatat in scoala ci in viata de zi cu zi este - sa iert si sa uit, sa uit si sa iert-

Daca nu ierti in viata nu mergi mai departe, ramai blocat undeva pe drum. In scoala nimeni nu mi-a spus cat de important va fi actul iertarii in viata. L-am realizat, constientizat si il spun si la altii. Am intalnit persoane trecute de prima tinerete care nu puteau concepe sa treaca peste anumite chestiuni din viata lor pentru ca nu aveau exercitiul iertarii in logica gandirii.

Iertarea si uitarea in viziunea mea sunt esentiale in viata chiar si atunci cand suntem nedreptatiti si consideram ca dreptatea este de partea noastra.

Cine iarta are putere, puterea de a merge mai departe !